Sunday, December 14, 2008

TERRORISM –THE NEW MENACE

What we are facing today is the result of our own misdeeds- call it cause and effect or whatever. Since decades educationists have been counseling parents against buying their kids toys and games which propagate violence. But suntan kon hai… Nobody cares and nobody listens, really. Toy guns, little revolvers, air-pistols, rifles are all part of the children’s’ toy collection. They   seem to send out a silent consent into the child’s subconscious that violence is okay, chalta hai…From toddler-hood to teenage it is we parents who nurture these tendencies in them, and these symbols of violence gain acceptance in their psyche. Even video games are competition-based and generally the winner ends up annihilating the other player. Most urban kids are addicted to  these games. Any resistance on part of the parent (when they dissuade the child from playing) is met with temper tantrums. What may follow is more violence. The parent himself gets violent by resorting to slapping, ear- pulling etc. In more than average households it is the parents who preach violence as a means of enforcing authority.

 

Apart from this the movie-makers also portray so much violence on screen. This tendency to cash in on sensationalism has made us pay too high price. It has helped produce, decade after decade, in sensitive human beings who enjoy blood-curdling experiences. We are living in an age of sensationalism. But,at what cost? At the cost of producing human being who are insensitive and in whose psyche the evil and the macabre is acceptable

 

We,as fellow-beings, as parents, and as citizens share a common responsibility. We need to take up a stand against violence, and create awareness about thy ways and means by which it may be shunned. We should collectively move to the government to create and enforce such that make violence in every sphere and at every level a punishable act.It has been done by the Americans; then why not Indians? In every other field we blindly mimic the west! On- screen violence can also be mitigated to a great extent in the same way as the government has put a ban on cigarette smoking. Our government has to work upon themselves to be an effective and dynamic body. In today’s jet age  and an age of ‘instants’ they have to realize that they have to be quick in their decisions as also in execution of the decisions taken.

 

If only the movie –makers would wake up to the fact they have a great role to play in moulding the mental attitudes of their genre, then perhaps we could hope someday to perceive the forthcoming generations of youngsters who would be genteel and not aggressive, pushy and revenge-seeking. Today, the unwritten law of land seems to be –“A tooth for a tooth and a nail for a nail.” Cinema has a tremendous impact on tender minds and it can be a monumental influencing factor when it comes to creating a change at such a massive scale. Why not use it in a totally productive way? Will the film industry take this responsibility upon themselves and have a serious go at it?

 

If we study the history of man, we find that the only permanent thing about it is ‘CHANGE’. One age gets over and another one starts-just as Tennyson (?) has said- ‘the  old order changeth yielding place to new……’And today, as the common man is helplessly face to face with terrorism he has to realize that the day has come to create the CHANGE and he has to make his contribution  towards that bringing about that change at the individualistic level so that we may progress towards a sweeping change at the level of society itself.  The change has to be holistic- it has to have the contribution of our  leaders (politic body and bureaucracy), media, cinema,  schools, welfare organizations, parents. Tendencies will have to undergo a radical change, only then can the psyche of a nation be change. If a collective effort  for such a change is made then slowly but surely we may be able to produce a forthcoming race, in our nation and in the world at large, which will be humane ,peace-loving, considerate and non-violent in . It will be a people who will believe and live the motto of “live and let live.” It will be a people who will be:

responsible  individuals,

responsible  citizens,

responsible parents, and lastly,

responsible fellow-beings.

 

This may sound like an idealistic approach and aim but till the common man does not aspire for it, we will not be able to help ourselves and help each other in this mission  of  living in a terror-free society where innocent blood will not  flow at the whims of  fundamentalist maniacs. The sooner we react to this rather harsh ‘wake-up’ call the better, HERE and NOW.

 

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Friday, December 5, 2008

JUNGLE SAFARI
Post Diwali holidays this year we went for a sojourn to The Jim Corbett Park. My husband and son were very enthusiastic about it and were looking forward to an elephant ride in the jungle too. As for me, I had no choice but to go along with their plans or else play spoilt-sport which I did not want to! So off we went to the resort where we were booked for three days. We reached the resort in the evening, explored the nearby area, had an early dinner and turned in early ‘coz we were tired due to the day’s traveling and also because we had to be up early for THE jumbo safari!!

As promised, the resort people sent along with us a guard cum guide who took us to the place where were to mount the elephant. My son enjoyed videoing this feat of mine-getting on to the elephant! Making fun of my size, I jokingly told him that he could title his recording as “An Elephant on an Elephant!” After all were aboard Kalina (that was her name!) we slowly started towards the forest. Taking soft and sure steps she meanouvered her way into the thickness of the jungle. With silent, padded feet she walked through tiny, dry ravines and thigh –high green grass and all along she kept feeding herself .I think she coincided the safari with her breakfast!
Deeper she took us into the jungle and deeper. The mahout, from time to time keep shh-shh-ing us in case Kalina got wind of a tiger’s presence. But no such luck. We were lucky enough to see many deer (they so endearing when they gazed at us in an innocent and enquiring manner), in a clearing in the woods. It was so picturesque! We spotted two-three sambar stags also. The swaying movement of the elephant and the silence of the jungle had such a soothing effect on the mind. As we went further into the jungle the only sounds which could be heard were the swishing of the grass as Kalina padded through it and the dewdrops that fell softly from the leaves. There was dead silence and calm. It had a soothing effect on the mind. The mind then wandered in deep recesses of itself, and somewhere along the way this thought occurred to me that we each carry within the self a jungle – our jungle of thoughts. It has its patches of clearing where happy thoughts dance like the sunlight danced on these trees and leaves. And then, it has those dark corners and ominous caverns where violent and wild (angry, hateful and selfish) thoughts lurk around sometimes. And just as we had become alert there amidst the wild in case of facing a dangerous animal so too in life we must become alert and cautious as soon as such thoughts enter our mind , which have menacing repercussions.
The jungle ride on the sweet-tempered Kalina turned out to be a meditative experience for me, something which I least expected, as initially I was so scared of going into the deep woods. It taught me life’s simple lesson –no matter how crowded our mind may become with strongly negative thoughts at times ,we must slowly, softly and surely wind our way out of it all just as Kalina did so staidly. We too can be mental giants and yet not lose gentleness and calmness ,like Kalina, huge in size but possessing desirable qualities- she was silent ,obedient, fearless and focused on the path in the forest.
We came back to the starting point and alighted from Kalina with a feeling of great
contentment! As we drove away from there we made sure we tipped Kalina’s owner and asked him to buy as much ‘ganna’ (sugarcane sticks) as he could for her! It sure had been a wonderful ride and she deserved to be rewarded!! -by Neelam Sethi.

23.11.08.Gurgaon.